Going from dating to friends with benefits
How do you feel when you have suppress your emotions because of the “don’t fall in love” rule? Casual sex can only exist where there is only a physical connection. If there is something more – a friendship, or any other communication other than being naked – casual sex is an illusion, not a reality. The girl who’s afraid to say what she wants to avoid coming across as having feelings, or standards god forbid. Unless…You don’t want to shut down your excitement any more. You feel stuck in a friends with benefits situation.
The sooner you accept it – the less heartache you’ll feel in your life."After he left, I was suddenly repulsed — not by his penis, but by his personality and the night as a whole.And I actively avoid his texts and calls to this day."2. You better take that into consideration before getting it on with someone you can't imagine your life without. I’m not saying that guys are cold-hearted and empty, but their emotions are not as strongly connected to physical intimacy as women. We try to argue with it, we try to understand why and we’re sure we can change it – but we can’t.
When a girl is physically intimate with a guy, her heart comes along with her body – either in full force or “just” a crush.She woke up around eight, with a horrible hangover, and decided to go back to sleep instead of going with her usual plan: sneaking out the closest exit."When I resurfaced around noon, he wanted to have sex again, so we did, and he dropped me off an hour later," she said.